Ruth Langsford, 61, candidly opened up about her marriage to Eamonn Holmes, 62, and how she “never tried” to take over the role of his ex-wife, Gabrielle, when she became a step-parent to their three children.
Eamonn and Gabrielle were married for 10 years and share Declan, 33, Rebecca, 31, and Niall, 29.
Speaking on Loose Women on Tuesday, Ruth admitted she was “nervous” about meeting Eamonn’s children when they started dating.
At the time, Eamonn’s children were aged five, six, and eight, and Ruth knew how important it was to build a good relationship with them.
She explained: “Eamonn is such a devoted father, I do remember thinking if they don’t like me then this is doomed, the relationship is doomed.
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“Quite understandably you know, they are his number one priority.”
The host explained that her step-children did eventually come around and the family are now “very close”.
Ruth then faced a new struggle in trying not to “take the role” of Eamonn’s ex-wife.
She continued: “Over the years, I have been very mindful of their mother and not ever trying to take that role, at all.
The GB News host explained: “Gabrielle was increasingly indifferent and I didn’t know why.
“I needed her close, I needed her to reach me and ease my pain, but she had concerns of her own, principal of which was an impending birth.
“That was the first time I realised there wasn’t that emotional support there for me.
“Though I probably had suspected it.”
The journalist added that his busy career also took a toll on the marriage.
He continued: “By that stage we tended to be apart during the week because of my job, and I had no trouble with that – though Gabrielle obviously did.
“I always believed absence would make the heart grow fonder and, in fact, the commuting heightened my desperation for her, [which] made the time less bearable and longer.
“But it gave my wife a life of her own, with her children, and come weekends I was intruding on it.”